Get Your Kink On

Mmmmm, kinky sex. Why are we not talking more about kinky sex? I think that people are afraid of labeling themselves as “kinky” like there’s something wrong with their sex life. I used to think that straying from “normal” activities meant that you must be bored with your sex life. Not so! I realized how much fun it can be to push your boundaries, even if it’s just a little bit. When you think “kinky” you might imagine someone trussed up, hanging from the rafters or masks or whips. Those are all great examples, however, everyone’s tastes differ. Kinky could be anything from cracking open a new can of whipped cream to spending the greater part of your long weekend trying to assemble your new love swing.

I’ve always said that sex is about exploring yourself and growing as a person. Sex is supposed to be fun! Pushing your boundaries is what makes sex exciting and keeps it from getting stale.

Having (and being) a partner that listens and you trust is also essential to kinky sex. Make sure that you’re comfortable in the situation and if you have any concerns that you talk them over with your partner.

I like to have a safe word (which the girls love to make fun of me for) so someone can bail if it gets too intense. It doesn’t have to be dirty talk; It could be something as simple as “teapot” (Ok, maybe you can think of a sexier word than that).

The point I’m trying to make is that everyone has a kink (I know you do, lol) and I think it’s high time that everyone started exploring them! So whether your into BDSM or just simply swinging from the chandeliers, it’s time to get a little naughty!